Les Frederick is my accountant. A Yale graduate, he runs a very successful CPA firm in Seattle, WA and has a daughter named Laura who is in her 30s. Les told me that she\u2019s mentally challenged, functioning at the level of about a five-year old child.<\/p>\n
Laura lives in a care facility that watches over her 24 hours a day. She\u2019s unable to do the simple things that we take for granted every day\u2014taking public transportation and communicating with others, for example. And, while Laura is able to run around, she can\u2019t run by herself because running solo requires the ability to make judgment calls such as where to go and how to get back home.<\/p>\n
For a number of years, Laura had watched the Seafair Torchlight Parade Run on television. Every time she saw the runners, she would ask her father if she could run with them. Each time, Les responded in the way most of us would\u2014he brushed it aside as an impossibility.<\/p>\n
But then, after a few years of Laura\u2019s asking, Les went out on a limb and told his daughter, \u201cWell, we need to practice.\u201d Les was about 64 years at the time.<\/p>\n
They started slowly, making it their goal from one telephone pole to the next. Then, when they accomplished this simple goal, they added another telephone pole, and another. Eventually, they were ready to enter their first Seafair Torchlight 8 kilometer race\u2014about 5 miles.<\/p>\n
After that first race, Les and Laura were both hooked. In under a year, Laura and her dad went from running their first 5-mile race to finishing their first 26.2-mile full marathon.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s been about two years since Laura ran her first race. Since then, Laura has completed nine half marathons and four full marathons<\/strong>\u2014she\u2019s even earned herself the title of \u00a0\u201cmarathon maniac\u201d\u2014a special title conferred on those who have done a certain number of marathons within a specified time period.<\/p>\n Jennifer Benner with\u00a0Northwest Runner<\/a>1<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0<\/em>magazine\u00a0once asked Laura why she always runs with Les, her dad. Her response was,<\/p>\n \u201cMy mom says that I have to stay with Dad when we run because it\u2019s my job to take care of him. He\u2019s old. So, okay, I\u2019ll do that. He\u2019s my partner. It would be better if he would try harder to keep up with me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Bear in mind that Les was 64 years old when he first began running with his daughter! Les has to run with Laura because she can\u2019t run by herself. In fact, he told me a story about a time that Laura was running a race and missed seeing a trail marker. She kept running just like Forrest Gump\u2014she kept running.<\/p>\n Les says,<\/p>\n \u201cLaura can\u2019t quite calculate the difference in mileage, but she does have the vague idea that a marathon (26.2 miles) is more difficult than a 5K (3.1 miles). So the difference in distance doesn\u2019t really register\u2014she just runs until she sees the finish line.<\/em><\/p>\n The harder part is what appeals\u00a0to Laura. Benner\u00a0asked what she likes about a particular route, Laura responded, \u201cthe big hill\u201d. When\u00a0asked her if she\u2019d every felt tired during a race and wanted to stop. Without skipping a beat, Laura adamantly replied, \u201cNo\u201d.<\/p>\n This is Laura\u2019s process, in her words:<\/p>\n \u201cI just run until I see the finish line. Then, finish strong. I could run faster, but my dad is slow and I have to take care of him.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n This past January, Les and Laura flew to Disney World and did the Dopey challenge together. Now, if you don\u2019t know what the Dopey challenge is, it looks like this:<\/p>\n I believe Laura has an advantage over most of us. Being mentally challenged, Laura simply cannot comprehend the concept of, \u201cYou can\u2019t do it.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n No one told her she couldn\u2019t do it! And isn\u2019t that the problem with most of us\u2014that we tell ourselves we can\u2019t do it? We come up with a litany of excuses why we cannot do something.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m too old.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m too tired.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m too busy.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n The list goes on, and on. But what if, like Laura, we simply didn\u2019t have the concept of \u201ccan\u2019t\u201d in our vocabulary?<\/p>\n Dan Kirschenbaum, Ph.D., professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Northwestern University Medical School says,<\/p>\n \u201cWe make excuses to reduce what\u2019s called \u2018cognitive dissonance\u2019. If we are committed to exercise and yet we don\u2019t do it, our excuses allow us to feel less dissonance or discomfort.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n We\u2014you and I\u2014are all capable of accomplishing incredible feats and reaching new heights. However, more often than not, it\u2019s the self-doubt that negative thinking that impedes us from reaching our goal.<\/strong><\/p>\n Think about it. If Laura, a woman who is mentally challenged, and Les, a father in his mid-60s, can run full marathons\u2014so can you!<\/p>\n As we\u2019re about to begin a new year, I want to challenge you to aspire to a new fitness goal. We live in an overly sedentary society. We need to be deliberate and intentional if we want to enjoy the blessings of great life and health that can result from being physically active.<\/p>\n This is how I recommend you to start: Begin just like Les and Laura did\u2014one telephone pole at a time.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve probably heard of the expression, \u201cHow do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Success begins with taking those gradual, bite-sized steps towards your goal.<\/strong> Don\u2019t make your immediate goal to run a full 26.2-mile marathon, because you may end up getting discouraged and quitting.<\/p>\n A friend of mine once shared with me about how he had climbed to the top of Mount Whitney with no prior training. He said it was so difficult and taxing that he never wanted to do it again. But this isn\u2019t the experience of most mountain climbers. Most climbers who have spent time in training thoroughly enjoy their climbing experience and can\u2019t wait to do it again.<\/p>\n So, this is my advice to you: Start your journey with a realistic and attainable goal.<\/strong> Perhaps walk or jog in your first 5K. Start with manageable goals and, as your reach each goal, set another reasonable goal. Before you know it, you\u2019ll be feeling great not only because of the amazing sense of accomplishment that comes with reaching your goal, but you\u2019ll also enjoy the benefits and blessings that come with having a vibrant, physically active life.<\/p>\n It\u2019s my wish for you that 2017 would be your greatest year.<\/p>\n 1\u00a0<\/sup>Benner, Jennifer. “My Best Race.” Northwest Runner<\/i> Aug. 2015: 18-19. Print.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Les Frederick is my accountant. A Yale graduate, he runs a very successful CPA firm in Seattle, WA and has a daughter named Laura who is in her 30s. Les told me that she\u2019s mentally challenged, functioning at the level of about a five-year old child. Laura lives in a care facility that watches over…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1252,"featured_media":6565,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"image","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,2],"tags":[194,182],"thb-sponsors":[],"yst_prominent_words":[1013,1050,1017,948,980,1056,1053,997,987,939,962,943,1007,946,968,1002,958,992,973,952],"class_list":["post-6563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-image","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fitness","category-lifestyle","tag-fitness-2","tag-mind-body-spirit","post_format-post-format-image"],"acf":[],"views":3518,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1252"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6563"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6563\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6576,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6563\/revisions\/6576"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6563"},{"taxonomy":"thb-sponsors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/thb-sponsors?post=6563"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifeandhealth.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=6563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\u201cI just run.\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\n
Laura\u2019s advantage.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
We are all \u201cfearfully and wonderfully\u201d made.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Set your goal, and then reach it.<\/strong><\/h2>\n